HANS FINZEL: Welcome to our radio program, Missions on the Frontline. WorldVenture supports over 1,000 mission projects and missionaries in over 65 countries of the world. We’ve been sharing the Good News of Jesus Christ around the world since 1943. This program is part of our new initiative to educate our listeners on creative new ways to be involved in missions.
Today we’re in part four of a four-part series on Joseph, life-lessons from Joseph in the Old Testament. More space is given to Joseph than any other character in the book of Genesis. God must have told Moses when He asked him to write the book of Genesis, “Give plenty of space to Joseph because there’s such a powerful, positive story of redemption in this man.”
He has been a personal encouragement to me as I’ve gotten to know him through my study. Today we’re going to look at the fourth lesson from the life of Joseph which is winning the battle of resentment; how to overcome bitterness.
You know so many things happened to Joseph to make him bitter but we’ve learned that he did not get bitter; he got better and today we’re going to look at that.
In Acts 7: 9-10
"These sons of Jacob were very jealous of their brother Joseph and they sold him to be a slave in Egypt. But God was with him10 and delivered him from all of his troubles…”
And that’s such a great thing to observe about Joseph. My theme for his entire life is summarized by this statement: Get over it; get on with it! Now that may sound harsh; that may sound cold; but ultimately that’s what he did. He got over what his brother’s did to him. He got over what Potiphar’s wife did him and he made his life better.
I’d like to just review the Top Ten Things I Love About Joseph.
1.He was a dreamer.
2.He practiced faithfulness to God in solitude.
3.He kept his attitude positive in a very negative set of circumstances .He did not allow defeat to defeat him and that’s really what we’re going to look at today. How he refused to become bitter as he grew older.
4.He learned to grow where he was planted as a Multiple Uprooted One and some of you may be asking, “Why is a program about missions having a Bible study about Joseph?” Well because Joseph was such an amazing missionary. He was transplanted from his own country to a hostile place which had a different language, culture, food, music…everything. He learned to thrive in that new culture and that’s what missionaries do as Multiple Uprooted Ones.
The Top Ten Things I Love About Joseph,
5.He grew better as a person through his trials; not bitter.
6.He knew the source of his gifting – that his gifts came from God and in every opportunity, as we’ve seen in past weeks, he always acknowledged that God was the One who gave him the gifts that he had. When Pharaoh and Potiphar put him in charge of their kingdom and their household, they said it was because obviously God was in this young man.
7.He was the black sheep that survived and thrived.
8.He overcame a highly dysfunctional family with a passive father. I don’t know about you but I grew up in a dysfunctional family and it’s so easy to blame our families and to blame our mom and dad’s. You know, do the blame game and not become all that God wants us to be because of those reasons. I know it’s complicated but I also know that here’s a guy who overcame this. He got over it; he got on with it and he’s one of the greatest heroes in all the Bible, Joseph.
9.He was extremely gifted; yet humble. It says that he was strong, handsome, with unusual wisdom and yet he remained humble. And as we saw last week I think the higher you go into leadership and the more gifted you are and the more vision you have, the more humble you need to be.
10.His whole life is a positive boost to the story of redemption.
Today we are going to pick up the story of Joseph at the reunion between his family and himself after 20 years. From age 17 to 37, for 20 years, he did not see his family. After those 20 years and there’s famine in the land and his father, Jacob, unaware that Joseph is still alive and that’s a whole other sidebar story how sad and broken-hearted Jacob was that as far as he knew Joseph was dead and for 20 years that’s what he thought.
We’re going to pick up the story in Genesis 42, when there is the famine all over the land, all over the Middle East. Beginning with verse 1:
“ 1 When Jacob heard that there was grain available in Egypt, he said to his sons, "Why are you standing around looking at each another?2 I have heard there is grain in Egypt. Go down and buy some of it before we all starve to death."
3 So Joseph's ten older brothers went down to Egypt to buy grain.4Jacob wouldn’t let his youngest brother, Benjamin, go with him, however, for fear some hard would come to him.”
We learned in previous weeks that there was only one full brother of Joseph, and that’s Benjamin. Only Benjamin and Joseph were born of Rachel, their mom, so once Joseph was gone, the favorite son became Benjamin and so the ten brothers went to buy grain but Benjamin stayed behind.
And I always think it’s funny when it says here, Jacob said to his sons, “Why are you standing around looking at each other?” Well we know exactly why they were standing around looking at each other because what do you think they were thinking about Egypt? One word: guilt.
When I was a little boy I used to play with matches and when I was about 10-years old me and a friend of mine accidentally started a little forest fire in a neighborhood near my home. You know, we ran and I remember later that afternoon hearing all the fire trucks and I felt so guilty about that fire. And you know, for years after that I would never ride my bicycle anywhere near the street that had that little forest because me and my buddy burned down that little forest.
And that’s how the brothers felt about Egypt but much worse. They had so much guilt because they knew they had sold their brother down to Egypt. Well, they had to go and so they went. They went to Egypt to buy grain.
6Since Joseph was governor of all of Egypt and in charge of the sale of grain it was to him that the brothers came and they bowed low with their faces to the ground. 7And Joseph recognized them instantly but he pretended to be a stranger and they did not recognize him. He said to them, “Where are you from?” he demanded roughly.
They answered, "From the land of Canaan. We’ve come to buy grain.
8 Joseph’s brothers didn’t recognize him. 9 And he remembered the dreams that he had had many years before and he said to them, "You are spies! You have come to see how vulnerable our land has become!"
10 “No, my lord!” they exclaimed. “We’ve come to buy food. 11 We are all brothers and honest men, sir. We are not spies.”
You know, Joseph is remembering that the dreams he had when he was 17-years old. Do you remember what those dreams were? That his brothers would come and bow down to him and that he would be the ruler.
Now we don’t have time to go into all the intricacies of why Joseph begins by being mean to them but he’s really trying to get more information with them and he is playing with them of sort, but eventually he asks them, “Well how many brothers are there?”
13 And they said, "Well sir there are twelve of us and our father is in the land of Canaan. Our youngest brother is there with our father and one of our brothers is no longer with us.”
[Being a.k.a. Joseph.]
Well Joseph does not sell grain to the brothers but says to them, 20 First you need to go back and bring your youngest brother, Benjamin…”
Because he wanted to see his full brother and of course they said, “No, we can’t do that because our father has already lost one son and if we bring back him, the other prize brother…”
You know, there’s just no way it’s going to happen and he says, “Well, that’s the only way you are going to get grain.”
He keeps Simeon, another one of the brothers, as hostage while they go back and tell their father everything that happened and in Genesis 43 they had the second journey to Egypt; this time with Benjamin. A number of events happened over a period of weeks where he’s playing a game of “cat and mouse” with them, trying to get more information about them, treating them with less than full respect but he’s trying…
His ultimate end-game is he wants to get his father and all his brothers down there before he reveals himself. Well he can’t stand the suspense anymore so let’s pick it up in Genesis 45.
“ 1Joseph could stand it no longer. “Out, all of you!” he cried out to his attendants. He wanted to be alone with his brothers when he told them who he was. 2 Then he broke down and wept aloud. His sobs could be heard throughout the palace and the news was quickly carried to Pharaoh’s palace.
3 “I am Joseph!” he said to his brothers. “Is my father still alive?” But his brothers were speechless!”
[Can you imagine how they felt in this moment? The surprise and awe of what they were realizing?]
“They were stunned to realize that Joseph was standing there in front of them.”
[And, you know, that they were not only shocked but they were afraid.]
“4 He said, “Come over here.” So they came closer. And he said again, “I am Joseph, your brother, whom you sold into slavery in Egypt.”
[Yeh, that’s right. I haven’t forgotten what happened 20 years ago; don’t think I have.]
“5 But don’t be angry with yourselves that you did this to me. For did it. He sent me here ahead of you to preserve your lives. 6 These two years of famine will grow to seven, during which there will be neither plowing nor harvest. 7 God has sent me here to keep you and your families alive so that you will become a great nation.”
[Not only does he forgive them, but he has all this compassion for them.]
“8 Yes, it was God who sent me here, not you! And he made me the counselor to Pharaoh—the manager of his entire household and ruler over all of Egypt.”
I don’t think there’s a greater illustration of forgiveness in all the Old Testament. You can tell that he forgave them long before they showed up because first of all, his reaction is crying and weeping and we see later that he begins to hug them and he covers them with his tears because it’s just a release and a relief that he’s finally reunited with his brothers.
Isn’t this an unusual reaction? To me, it’s so different than normal human beings who would have become so bitter and so angry at their family and with all the power that he had. What could he have done to his brothers? He could have taken them all out and kept Benjamin and then gone back for his father and the three of them could have lived happily ever after but no, he forgave them. And he forgave them, I believe, long before they came because for 20 years they were separated but it’s obvious by the time they show up, he’s kind of gotten over it; gotten on with it.
And something else as you read through this story, we don’t have enough time to go through all the details of the story but you know another one of the amazing things? They never actually ask for forgiveness from him. He forgives them before they ask. Have you ever been hurt by somebody? Deeply? And you struggle forgiving them? Who has hurt you the most? Let me give you some suggestions because I find it is hurts - and the wounds of friends and family are the most painful wounds – but if we don’t forgive people and if we don’t let go, do you know what happens? Bitterness, anger, and depression.
I remember a psychologist told me years ago the number one reason for depression is anger and I think one of the greatest reasons for anger is bitterness. Bitterness leads to anger, which leads to depression. Who’s hurt me the most? Is it my parents? My dysfunctional family? My own children and they haven’t done what I had hoped for them? Acts they have done against me? My own spouse? My teammates? My co-workers? A neighbor? A stranger? My siblings? My pastor? The elders? A teacher? An event?
I have dear friends that lost their son in a car accident; their only son. An event; a moment in time that lasts forever. We just recently went to the grave site to honor the fifth anniversary of that event and I tell you, I think they’ve done so much better than I could have ever done under the same circumstances. How about God? Maybe God is the One who has hurt you the most and what are you going to do about it? Joseph is one of the greatest illustrations of forgiveness in all the Bible. Let me ask you as we pause and reflect for a moment about the forgiveness that he was able to give to his brothers and his family.
What is an incident of hurt or betrayal that has happened to you that has left you bitter and has had long-term damaging effects on you? You find it hard to forgive. I had a person who deeply hurt me several years ago; a person that I worked with very closely in our ministry and that person is not around anymore but this person was a great, great friend and there’s nothing that hurts more than to be betrayed by a personal friend. Well how does that betrayal impact my life? Am I going to get over it and get on with my life? Am I going to forgive them? You know it would be so much easier if that person would come back to me and say, “You know, Hans, I’m sorry. I was wrong. Will you forgive me?” But what if they don’t ever change their mind? They don’t think they were wrong and all the years go by and they haven’t changed their position? That’s exactly what Joseph did. He forgave them when they were not even in his life anymore. He forgave them when they didn’t ask for forgiveness; he just let it go and that’s what we need to do. What would help you process that along? If I can encourage you with one piece of advice I’d say talk to somebody about it. Go talk to a pastor; talk to your wife; talk to a family member; a close friend. But don’t let bitterness shut your life down for the rest of your years.
Let’s pick up the story when Joseph finally lays his eyes on his father and his father, after 20 years of thinking his most precious son is dead, finds that he is actually alive.
I thought to myself when we were at the grave site the other day with my friend as we were mourning his son’s death, I thought, “What would it be like if all of a sudden he walked out from behind that gravestone?” That’s exactly how Jacob felt when he saw Joseph 20 years later.
Genesis 46 “28 Jacob sent Judah on ahead to meet Joseph and get directions to the land of Goshen.” [Hey, here’s a man who actually asked for directions. What do you know?] “And when they all arrived there, 29 Joseph prepared his chariot and traveled to Goshen to meet his father. As soon as Joseph arrived, he embraced his father and wept, holding him for a long time. 30 Then Jacob said to his son Joseph, “Now let me die, for I have seen you with my own eyes and I know you are still alive.”
Isn’t that amazing? What a beautiful reunion.
Now Joseph was never bitter at his father; he just missed his father. He is bitter at his brothers but he forgave them and this story ends so well.
Joseph kept saying, “God sent me,” but Joseph kept thinking, “But God meant it for good. You guys are worried because of what you did to me but actually, you were a tool of God.”
Sometimes when terrible things happen to you, you have to ask yourself the question, “Lord, is this your chisel on my life? Is this your shaping and molding? Is this part of what You want to do to make me who You want me to be?”
In Romans 8:28 we read, “We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.”
James 1:2-4: “2Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds…
[Why? Because trials refine your faith.]
3because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. 4Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
So get over it; and get on with it.
I read the story of a woman who wrote these penetrating words about her prayer that the Lord would save her from bitterness and that’s the lesson today from Joseph -- that we be saved from bitterness and that we learn to forgive and to get over whatever it is that’s eating us alive. One woman wrote these penetrating words. “But do they really matter, all the 'whys'? Could all the answers take away my pain?
Or all the reasons dry my eyes,
Though from heaven's court? No! I would weep again!
My God, You have saved me from hell's black abyss,
Oh, save me from the tyranny of bitterness!”
What a great prayer. Oh Lord, save me from the tyranny of bitterness.
And there’s no greater person in the Old Testament that could show us this lesson than the lesson of Joseph. It all ended well for him. He finished strong. He lived another 68 years through tough times but great times. He buried Jacob in honor. The family healed and spent years together and if you read Genesis 50 you can sort of read the end of the story. He grew old enjoying his children and his grandchildren.
One of the interesting things about after his father Jacob died, his brothers again became paranoid. They never really believed in his full forgiveness and after Jacob died they kind of made this play, “Oh by the way,” they wrote this little will and said, “Dad wrote this and said for you to be nice to us.”
He said, “You know, I forgave you. I forgave you.”
Looking back on life I read this quote several weeks ago but I want to read it again, this great quote from F.B. Meyer in his book, JOSEPH: THE BELOVED. “It is very sweet as life passes by to be able to look back on dark and mysterious events and to trace the hand of God where we once saw only the malice and cruelty of men.”
What a great lesson – lessons from the life of Joseph. Now I promised that at the end of this series, at the end of today, in the final moments that we have left we would draw parallels between Joseph and Jesus. One reason I like him so much – the life of Joseph – is how many parallels there are. Here we go:
Though he suffered, he saved a whole nation.
The people who he was to save hated him.
He was betrayed by those closest to him.
He was sold for 20 pieces of silver.
His clothes were taken away by his enemies.
His second set of clothes was better than his first; he received royal robes just like our Lord Jesus after the resurrection.
He wept for those who hurt him.
The brokenness of the son wounded the father.
He left a legacy of hope.
He achieved his high position on the throne via suffering.
He arose out of a hole in the ground.
Both were eventually reunited with their fathers.
They both lived with future promises in view.
Their suffering accomplished the covenant of God with His people.
They were wrongly accused.
They were both taken to Egypt.
They both were severely tempted without sin.
They both ministered in an alien land.
They both saved many peoples.
They both interceded on behalf of their brethren.
They both finished well.
Finally, since this is a mission program, they both left assignments for those who were left behind. This has been Missions on the Frontline and we love the life of Joseph and our study in the life of Joseph because he is so much a type of Christ. He is such a redemptive figure and he left the comforts of his home land to go to Egypt to redeem a nation, just like our Lord Jesus Christ left heaven to come to earth to redeem us. And He left us work to do when He went on to His reward and that is the Great Commission, to take the Good News of Jesus Christ around the world and that’s the passion and heart of WorldVenture, to see people of all nations transformed by Jesus Christ. Thanks for listening to this four-part series on the life of Joseph. If you’ve missed some of these shows you can download them on our website, WorldVenture.com. And we’d love to hear from you. If you would write me at Frontline@WorldVenture.com, I’d love to get feedback and hear how you like these programs.
This has been Hans Finzel, and this is Missions on the Frontline, a ministry of WorldVenture. Our website is WorldVenture.com. We’re here to extend your vision, help make you aware of creative new ways you can get involved in sharing the great news of Jesus Christ around the world. Thanks for listening today. We’ll see you next week on Missions on the Frontline.
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